How Long Should a Blowjob Actually Last?

How Long Should a Blowjob Actually Last?
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If you've ever gone down on somebody, you probably have asked yourself: how much longer am I doing this for?

This question is totally normal to ask. At first read it comes off like something someone would say if they were bored. Like how a child asks how much longer till they get to grandma's house during a long road trip. It sounds impetuous - like going down on a guy and checking their watch. But really if you take away that sort of reaction you realize that this question is totally reasonable.

A blowjob take some work and a degree of control. This euphemism for fellatio even has the word "job" in it. If it was no trouble we'd call it a blow party, which sounds really fun.

First off there's two types of blowjobs you give. One of them is foreplay leading to intercourse and the other is well... it has a climax and an ending. Foreplay is simply that, and something that can last 10 minutes or 10 seconds. Often if you're doing a blowjob as foreplay it's just to titilate somebody and use saliva as extra lubricant.

But also, when you use words like "play" and "climax" and "ending" to describe a blowjob, these are all words that relate to ideas behind a story. The way I think of it, is a good blowjob tells a story. Stories have beginnings, middles, and endings. So when you think of how long a blowjob should last maybe you should think about what kind of story you're trying to tell.

Stories start with the introduction of character. The characters in this case are: 

  • Lips
  • Tongue
  • Mouth
  • Hands

Each character should have a strong first line and introduction, and they should weave into the central plot you're trying to tell. Ask yourself what's the narrative of your blowjob. Is it an exciting movie filled with fast action? Is it a quiet loving romance filled with lingering looks and gentle kisses? Maybe there's even a teeth character and it's a suspense film! (probably not that last one). No matter the overarching plot, the important part is that you have a plot.

The trick to how long a blowjob is telling a story. A good story is thoughtful and at all times engaging. Communicate with your partner after and ask them if they liked the story. Ask them if they wanted to learn more about any of the characters or if they liked the twists and turns.

After you think of it this way, you'll worry less about "how much longer" and more toward, "where's this story going, how should I end it?"

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